I read a post recently where someone said they were going to stop being trans 24-7 because it was just too damn hard.
And I completely understand.
24-7 just sets people up for failure. End of story.
I have been following a 23-7 philosophy, and it seems to work.
If you have to dress up as your biological gender every once and while to TCB (take care of business) wtf?
No big deal.
This black and white stuff of being a boy or girl 24-7 is insane.
Make the system work synergistically for yourself.
And if that means I have to occasional revert back to my male gender role to deal with the government, or whatever, so be it.
And for t people on a budget, this is the only way you are going to get things done.